Your Mindset Is Either Making You Millions or Making You Miserable

So let’s be honest for a second.

You’ve probably read all the books.Heard the mantras.Tried the gratitude lists.

You know a positive mindset is supposed to change your life.

But some days? You’re like, “Cool, but can a positive mindset pay my bills, fix my relationship, and help me stop hate-scrolling LinkedIn?”

Fair.

I get it.

But here’s the hard truth: you can have the strategy, the hustle, the five-year plan, the vision board—and still not get where you want to go…

If your mindset is secretly sabotaging you behind the scenes.

The Energy Leak No One Talks About

You know that voice in your head that says:

“You’re behind.”“That launch didn’t hit because you’re not cut out for this.”“Everyone else is doing better than you.”

Yeah, that voice? It’s not your quirky inner critic.It’s the energy leak that’s costing you your dreams.

And no amount of caffeine, cold plunges, or 5AM workouts can outrun it.

Because mindset isn’t just about feeling good.It’s about unlocking the mental energy to keep showing up, especially when it’s hard.

Wait—So You’re Telling Me I Can Just Think My Way to Success?

Not exactly. But I am telling you this:

🧠 A positive mindset helps you take bigger action, faster.💥 It makes you resilient when sh*t hits the fan.🚀 It aligns your actions with your actual goals—instead of survival mode.

And here’s the wild part:You don’t have to believe the new thoughts for them to start working.

You just have to choose them.

Why It Feels Fake at First (And Why That’s Okay)

Let’s not sugarcoat this.

When you’ve spent years rehearsing self-doubt and preparing for worst-case scenarios (hi, anxiety), trying to say things like “I’m a powerful creator” can feel…cringe.

But think of it like strength training.The first time you pick up a 20 lb dumbbell, your arms are like:

“Absolutely not.”

But reps build muscle.And mindset reps build resilience.

So How Do I Shift My Mindset Without Being Delusional or Fake AF?

Glad you asked. Here’s what works (and yes, I’ve tested it the hard way):

💬 1. Talk to Yourself Like You’re Coaching Your Favorite Client

Would you ever tell someone else:

“You’ll never get this right.”“You’re so behind.”“Everyone’s judging you.”

No? Cool. Then don’t say it to yourself.

Start with:

• “I’m figuring it out.”

• “My effort will pay off.”

• “This is part of the process.”

  
  

🔁 2. Interrupt the Negative Loops Like It’s Your Job

The moment you catch yourself spiraling? Say (out loud if you have to):“We’re not doing that today.”

Even just interrupting the pattern shifts your energy.It’s not about fake positivity—it’s about choosing power over panic.

🔮 3. Visualize the Version of You Who’s Already Done It

Close your eyes for 90 seconds. Imagine Future You—book published, business booming, glowing skin and inner peace.

Ask:

“What did they believe that got them there?”“How did they show up even when it felt messy?”

Then go be that person now. Even for 10 minutes.

✍️ 4. Journal Like a Boss, Not a Victim

Try this prompt:

“If I fully believed in myself today, I would…”

Don’t hold back. Let it be bold.Then go do one thing from that list.

🧠 5. Remember: Your Thoughts Create Momentum

Every thought you think is a vote for the future you want—or the one you’re scared of.

Which one are you casting votes for?

Final Thought: Positivity Isn’t a Personality Trait—It’s a Skillset

And like all skills, it gets easier the more you use it.

You’re not broken if mindset work feels hard.You’re not failing if you still catch yourself doom spiraling on Tuesday mornings.

You’re human.You’re learning.And you’re doing better than you think.

So let this be your reminder:

The world you want starts in your mind.

And you? You’re wildly capable of building it.

One brave, messy, slightly-more-positive thought at a time.

💚

Sarah